Look of the Day

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BODY

SKIN: amitomo ~ samon skin (by woomi Latte)

HAIR:  Dura ~ Boys&Girls53 (by chiaki xue)

EYES: Labyrinth ~ Radiant Eyes (by LabyrinthStarchild)

EARS: MANDALA ~ Pierced_ELF_EARS_VER2 (by kikunosuke eel)

WOUND: REPULSE ~ Slashed Cheek Wound Tattoo & Sinner Stomach Wound Tattoo (by Max Lexigle)

OUTFIT

NECKLACE: Cubic Cherry Kre-ations @ Tale of Fantasy  ~ {Druid’s Call} necklace (by kreao kujisawa)

OUTFIT: B@R ~ Pirate Emperor (by June Dion)

CIGAR: hoorenbeek ~ Cigar (by Ansor Hoorenbeek)


LOTM 264 ~ BY TADEU GARTNER

| Style of the Day – 22.10.2014 |
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Hat: RO – SpellBinder – Oracle RARE @ TAG! GACHA
Arrow:
RO – Lovestruck @ GIFT Group | RO – Remarkable Oblivion
Hair: HOMAGE — KOLT REM : [Hair] (NEW!!!)
Eyes + Tattoo: Clemmm & In Mourning – Flooded . Ruptured Eyes (NEW!!!)
Mouth: DRD – makin dimples needle @ TAG! GACHA
DRD- Rotting mouth @ TAG! GACHA
DRD- speak no evil @ TAG! GACHA
Cards on the neck: DRD- cardthrow accident @ TAG! GACHA
Jacket: Peqe – Jacket Vest_Purple (NEW!!!)
Gloves: DRD- nightmare gloves right @ TAG! GACHA
Pants: ..::ILLI::.. – Basic Chino (NEW!!!)
Firewood cutter: RO – Zombie Axe – Bloody @ GIFT Group | RO – Remarkable Oblivion
Poses: *PosESioN* Art of fly 5 & Aries 2


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Considering what is yours and what is mine…..

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Credits:

HAIR: Magika – Unknown
HORNS:8f8 – Renaissance Horns – GLASS (from The Fantasy Collective opening OCT 20th)
SHOULDER: Zibska – Sacheverell (Part of outfit) from Tales of Fantasy open till Nov 3rd
EYELINER: [mock] Raven Eyeliner Only {black}
SCARF: [LeLutka]-EDITORIAL scarves
SEPTUM: .random.Matter. – Cthulhu Septum – Black (At Mystic Realms Faire )
NOSE CHAIN: .random.Matter. – Orianthi Nose Chain – Black V2 (At Mystic Realms Faire )


LOTM 263 ~ BY TADEU GARTNER

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Headpiece: 22769 ~ [accessoires) Helios Head Piece @ Fallen Gods 7th Birthday
Ears Elf: [MANDALA] FANTASY_ELF_Ears
Horns: .ARISE. Wild Horns / Shiny_Black @ @ Tales of Fantasy
Mask: !dM Piume e Fiori “SteamChains” RavenMask
Wings: .aisling. Elyan – Wings (Gold)
Staff: *SL*Acorn Lantern Fantasy * @ Tales of Fantasy
Chair: 22769 ~ [bauwerk] Taxidermic Renaissane Throne Red @ The Fantasy Collective


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Post #686 HAIKEI

Table: :HAIKEI: My vintage art studio  Gacha {1} |Kustom9 Boombox: Soy. vintage boom box [Red] Frames: / XIAJ / Wooden Frames //pics not included Stool: / XIAJ / Hera Artist Stool Paint Pot: HAIKEI: My vintage art studio / Gacha {4} |Kustom9 Frames: :HAIKEI: My vintage art studio / Gacha {6} |Kustom9 Newspaper: :HAIKEI: My vintage art studio / […]

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New @ fi*Fridays, Kustom9, & L'accessoires.

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Bandana Snapback - xin. - (Kustom9)

Mortthy Sweater - {Fe Style} - (fi*Fridays)

Artist Square Backpack - *Cila* - (L'accessoires)

HotBoy Jeans - MUSCHI

Solaris

Happy Birthday to the awesome Fallen Gods that is celebrating seven years in Second Life. I have this awesome outfit from Fallen Gods to celebrate the seventh anniversary called Solaris* and is available by playing the lucky fortune teller at the mainstore.

Fallen Gods Slurl

Solaris
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Solaris

Kalopsia – Sitting Statues, Sphinx Statues

*Promotional copy

The post Solaris appeared first on Carthalis Rossini.

10 More days till Halloween, Halloween, Halloween!

10 More days till Halloween, Halloween, Halloween! i

10 More days till Halloween, Halloween, Halloween! ii

TATTOO: *InkTruder* ~ Sick Boy. HAT: *LODE* ~ Addicted, tangerine. SHIRT: La Penderie de Jules ~ Shirt, white/black. TIE: La Penderie de Jules ~ Tie, slate. PANTS: ::K:: ~ Super Skinny Plain, mustard. SHOES: [LWL] ~ Mr. Fancypants Slide, plume.

POSE: Diesel Works ~ Dante6.

10 More days till Halloween, Halloween, Halloween! iii

10 More days till Halloween, Halloween, Halloween! iv

BLINDFOLD+GAG: Plank Couture ~ Crucifixe Silencer Head Piece. TATTOO: *InkTruder* ~ Ship(old), fresh. JACKET: VERO MODERO ~ Theo Set Lines, male jacket. LEGGINGS: Anthem ~ Half Sequined black leggings. SHOES: [LWL] ~ Mr. Fancypants Slide, plume.

POSE: Diesel Works ~ Enzo1.

10 More days till Halloween, Halloween, Halloween! v

10 More days till Halloween, Halloween, Halloween! vi

PUMPKIN: *Muism* ~ Halloween Pumpkin. TATTOO: *InkTruder* ~ Arise V1 Tattoo, fresh. EYE MAKEUP: Miamai ~ InMutatio Eyeshadow 03. LIP MAKEUP: Miamai ~ InMutatio Homme Lips 01.

POSE: *PosESioN* ~ Ambiorix 5.

SKIN: Aeros Avatars ~ Kitai, almond milk. HAIR: KMADD ~ Puck, dark brown III. HAIRBASE+FACIAL HAIR: Entente ~ Facial Hair A, beard quatre. PIERCING: Aitui ~ Circular Barbell Septum Ring. EYES: .Insufferable Dastard. ~ Bright Mesh Eyes. L: Wispy Green R: Wispy Blue. EARS: [MANDALA] ~ Simple Ears HUTUU. NIPPLES: Aa Production ~ Nipple men. HANDS: JOMO ~ Men’s hands. FEET: Slink ~ Mens Natural Bare Feet.


The real story behind the “Extortion” of Zib Scaggs

Sorry, this isn’t a fashion post. It’s about something a lot more important than that but related greatly to the fashion world.

I want more than anything in the world right now, for all those of you who are reading this to please just give me a chance to hear my side of the story at last, where it concerns all this mess and drama with Zib Scaggs and what she shared on her flickr and her blog (link here ) ) about me. Please instead of thinking TL:DR, take some time to read through this carefully and take in every last word, and pass on the information if you care about my wellbeing and the truth.

This is what it really is all about.

I have history with Zib. I first knew Zib as an acquaintance through some gallery events run by my partner, and also she attended DJ sets of mine. When I asked about blogging for her, she was happy to accept me. I was her very first male blogger and I loved being it, I had done many posts for her way back before she was even that well known, in 2012.

After almost a year of blogging for her, she had just released a male line and secured some famous male bloggers and then she dismissed me from the group. That was pretty cold but I responded in a polite way asking her to give me a 2nd chance. Here is the exact transcript, word for word, of what she said when she let me go and what my response by notecard was:

Hello Dox

I am writing to let you know I am releasing you from the Zibska blogger group. During my periodic check of those who blog my designs I found your efforts to be under par.

Best of luck in your modeling and blogging endeavors.

~ Zib

My response:
Zib…I am saddened to hear this from you, especially as I am *just* about to do a blog post of your new releases from MWFW and I used your designs in MWFW shows as well. I am sorry I was not able to blog your MWFW releases during the actual MWFW, but it was due to being too busy with 16 shows to do and managing all the Djs and hosts, try to understand. The only ones I posted during that time were photos I had taken before MWFW started, and that Byrne had worked on for me in PS, because I didn’t have time for doing the post-processing which with me, takes a long time since I have diagnosed OCD.

I was waiting a long time on getting pictures for my blog post on the new MWFW necklace done by my friend Dammi, and that’s why it’s taken so long to get that one posted. Please invite me back to the Zibska blogger group. I will make blogging your designs a priority from now on, as much as I can.
The thing is it’s not always so to post your stuff on a regular basis, because your makeups and accessories only suit certain looks and I have to blog
for other designers too who are my sponsors.

Did you see the last posts I did for you? They weren’t that long ago. This is the last one I did, and it was just before MWFW started. http://fashion-frankenstein.blogspot.ca/2013/04/oh-behave_11.html

I am a big fan of your designs, please don’t stop sending me stuff. I wear them all the time when I’m out at fashion parties, or doing shows, even if I’m not always blogging them. I promote your designs in different ways.

Sincerely,
Dox.

Unfortunately, I seem to have lost the chat logs that followed. She never answered my notecard so I had IM’d her asking her to please contact me and explain why exactly my blog was under par and what was wrong with it. I wanted to know so I could learn to improve myself. She continually did not answer me after a few different politely written (although maybe a little desperate sounding I’ll admit) offine IMs to her, and so I asked my partner if she could ask her to reach me.

Zib responded to my partner by complaining about how I was not consistent enough with my blogging and that she had tons of bloggers now that were better at that, and what was the real bad part here, was that she went into *great length* about how my photography was poor and my styling was too. She picked me to pieces, severe criticism and insulting language too, she was quite aggressive about it and rude, and how I wish my partner had those IMs still but sadly she never logged them.

So at that point, I did get mad at her but never actually insulted her maybe just told her she was being a diva about this, and defended myself by saying I blogged makeup and accessories of hers that were for women and didn’t even fit me so that should’ve counted for something.

But it ended there, I stopped trying to contact her after that last message and I moved on and even continued to buy her products and blog them, for free, for years to come. Completely free advertising for her even though she had treated me pretty crappy and was ungrateful for what I’d done for her, and never favorited my photos.

So, flash forward to 2014. We had been talking, after I had requested review copies for Menswear Fashion Week and she gave me them and I was thankful, since due to having quit Siren Productions who runs it and having started a boycott against their unprofessional and bullying treatment of models and entertainment who work for them (boycottsiren.wordpress.com), I had been banned from the sim and could not access these products. At this time Zib was telling me my photos have improved a lot and I noticed she had favorited a few of them for a while now, and so I asked her if I could blog for her again would she give me a 2nd chance. She said wait until the applications are open again and she told me I should apply.

I did apply for the next blogger call but was rejected anyway. The thing to note and remember here, is that is *NOT* why I got so mad at her. It was after I then asked her if she could send me review copies of her PENUMBRA items because I was blogging for PENUMBRA FW at the time. She answered in all caps NO. Just like that ,and that came off extremely rude to me. I was after all, a blogger for that event.

At that point, let me please explain, I was under a huge amount of stress, I was unstable, emotionally, I had been abused by my family, I had poor mental and physical health, and I snapped. It all came back to me about how she treated me before, when she first dumped me and the mean things she’d said to me about my photos,style and everything.

After she said that No in a rude cold way it triggered all those memories and feelings I had still pent up inside me that I had tried to push down, but they all came flooding back and I got really mad it was a total heat of the moment thing and I meant nothing serious by it, but this is what I said:

[05:27] Paradox Messmer: (Saved Sun Sep 21 04:08:46 2014)I think I’ll tell everyone just what a mean person who’s totally full of themselves you are
[05:27] Paradox Messmer: (Saved Sun Sep 21 04:09:24 2014)You used to be decent, going to the Rubb and hanging out inthe alternative scenes, now you’re just a diva with the biggest ego and worst attitude toward their customers I’ve ever seen
[05:27] Paradox Messmer: (Saved Sun Sep 21 04:09:57 2014)Don’t expect me to give you free advertising anymore
[2014/09/20 19:08] Dox (paradox.messmer): I think I’ll tell everyone just what a mean person who’s totally full of themselves you are

That’s all that I said to her, and yes it was not right for me to do but I was not in a good head space and remember, I was thinking of the history between us, the way I had been dumped originally and the mean things she’d said about my blogging.

So, instead of her ignoring it, or trying to talk to me about it which would have been the mature, drama-free way to handle it, she shared that on her flickr page and her blog! She made a big post about it, claiming I was extorting her! Which is totally incorrect. And she proceeded on her flickr page to slander me in front of thousands of flickr followers who then gave her 60 plus favorites on the post and many many people ganged up on me in the comments.

Please understand, I may not have evidence of it now, but at least 30 different people shamed, insulted me, embarrassed me, they attacked me, and I lost control of my temper and defended myself and even insulted some of them back, which I regret having done but you have to try to understand what I was going through, please if you have any empathy in your heart. How would you have felt under such a barrage on a public forum?

Try to understand, I implore you. They were bullying me, and I suffer from PTSD from years of abuse and extreme bullying in school and at home so this just set me off like a bomb. The ganging up, I couldn’t handle it.

And for the record, I was never extorting her, that wasn’t my intention. it was a misinterpretation from her. I didn’t mean anything more than I will tell a few friends, on my friendslist, about my bad experiences with her going back to the original treatment when I was her blogger. I wasn’t going to make any website or boycott her or turn people against her. I would’ve said something to a friend or two at most in PRIVATE IMs.

But she freaked out. She showed she is a very insecure person and immature at that, and she made a huge scene out of it, it spiraled out of control into a shitstorm and it’s both our faults that it did.

However, I apologised on my flickr for all to see and yet this has seemed to not have made any difference. I have since been fired from an agency I worked hard for and had done many shows for, one where the people who I worked for had praised me for my modeling,style and also Djing for their shows. What’s worse, I also lost an honor someone was going to give me for my contributions in the fashion industry and my styling talents, something I really needed after going through all this.

I want to note, that I just had a big 2 day fundraiser to benefit Mental Health America, a charity that helps people in the community who struggle with mental and emotional illness and suicidal thoughts, just like me, and I did it out of pure heart, compassion and a desire to do something to make a difference for people who have been where I have been most of my life, in the dark places mental illness brings you down in. So far $100,000L has been raised, equal to over 400USD.

This is not the first time I raised money for an important charity., either.
A few years back, when Africa’s famine was at an all time crisis, I organized a 2 day event with multiple DJs and raised 800USD to be split between Red Cross and UNICEF.

I also raised $300USD for Gay and Lesbian Human Rights Committee during a Gay Pride all day event I organized once again, on my own.

I want to say Zib had taken down her original flickr post only after my partner and friends begged her out of concern for my at high risk mental health. She only removed it after days of it being up for all to see. She demanded that I put my apology up and meet the same amount of views her post had (an impossible feat for my flickr), but I just learned she’s left it on her blog all this time and it’s still there now, ruining my image for all who see it. Getting me denied opportunities and honors for my contributions and hard work for the SL fashion industry.

So this has been my story. This is my voice finally spoken. Will it be heard or even recognized? I don’t know. But I am praying to God that Zib will have the heart and sense to let this go and move on, remove her blog post, and that the backlash I’m getting will die down and I will still have a chance to be in magazines, and part of agencies and receive invitations to things that honor my work. I’m so desperate, so deeply depressed, so full of hopelessness and despair. I’ve lost so much I cared about, all because a designer who had a tantrum and a spiteful vendetta against me.

With deepest remorse for my behavior and despair,
Paradox Messmer.


[...the simple things mean the most]


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Ears: CheerNo - Human_EarsPLUGopen B280714
Feet: Slink AvEnhance - Male Feet Flat
Hair: Soonsiki - Kaleidoscope in Brown
Hand: Slink AvEnhance - Relaxed

Jacket: xin - qiu parka autumn @ The Seasons Story
Pants: !APHORISM! - Slim Jeans Brown (gift)
Shoes: ILLI - SLink Invictus Khaki

Bike:  XIAJ /ZZANG  - Delivery Bike  navy
Decor: PILOT - Crate Pumpkin Display
Leaves: Serenity Style - Autumn Leafs Ground Cover (gift)
Pumpkins: Serenity Style - Natural Pumpkins

Pose: Del May - Power shower male (head modified with Animare)

Location: Frisland
Now playing: September by Chet Baker